fate is everywhere and everything! that's what i believe. fate comes in to play almost everywhere in our lives. if we gain luck, or lose it. if we win the lottery or lose all of our money.
i believe that suicide is not the only defiance. hell. i think there isn't any to begin with! if you kill yourself, you were probably fated to do so. and that if it goes wrong and you end up a vegitable... that was probably fate as well!
fate isn't necessarily written in stone. if you change fate, it was probably fated to be changed. fate dictates when something will come to change it, and when it'll take complete control of one's life.
fate isn't truly absolute, it is changable, but fate is part of us, and if we end up changing it, we were probably fated to do so!